Victor Gray
Victor is in long-term
recovery thanks to multiple
opportunities in Prop. 36
treatment. He has not used
drugs or alcohol since October
2004 and was discharged
from parole in early 2006—after
being on probation or parole
since 1989! Here’s
what he has to say:
I am now a very successful
businessman. I’m a
proud father of 4 boys and
one girl, who, by the way,
was born on my one-year
clean date (in October 2005).
I owe my life to Prop. 36
and all the wonderful counselors.
If it wasn’t for one
counselor by the name of
Kim L. believing in me and
for seeing something in
me that I couldn’t
see myself, I would not
be sharing my story today.
She saved my life. I believe
that God will keep this
program alive and with God
for us who can be against
us? No one can! Thank you
very much to all the supporters
of Prop. 36. May God bless
you even if you do not believe
in him. He is there for
all of us and he will be
here for the budget on Prop
36.
My addiction started at
a very young age, when I
was growing up in Del Paso
Heights. My father died
when I was 10 and I grew
up in a sick home with a
very sick step dad. People
and family members used
to say that I never had
a chance. I like to say
that I had a choice. I spent
most of my life using anything
I could put in a spoon,
roll in a blunt wrap or
drink out of a bottle. In
the process of my drug addictions,
I managed to spent most
of my life in prison. See,
I brought into the lie at
a very young age that it
was my destiny to live the
way I was living my life.
I never knew that there
was treatment for my addictions
till I got Prop. 36. I came
into the program in 2002,
but did not last long and
I went back to prison. I
got out a year later and
re-entered the Prop. 36
program after turning in
a dirty to my parole officer.
At that time in my life,
I knew I wanted to stop
using but didn’t know
how. Just one group and
one one-on-one meeting a
week was not working for
me. I needed something more
than what I was getting.
That’s when I went
into a residential treatment
called A-House. I still
struggled and after 58 days
of being there I left. It
wasn’t till 3 days
later that I realized that
I had hit my bottom. I was
allowed to return to A-house
after 19 days only to get
kicked out after 60 days.
That didn’t have to
be a bad thing. In that
60 days I had gotten everything
I needed. I found out who
God was, I got a support
group and much, much more.
I went back into outpatient
and graduated with flying
colors.
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